OAR hosted a free webinar on the topic of sexuality, sexuality education, and relationships which featured Peter Gerhardt, Ed.D., OAR Scientific Council chairman and executive director of the EPIC School (Paramus, N.J.), and Amy Gravino, M.A., president of A.S.C.O.T. consulting. Gerhardt and Gravino provided an overview of the many challenges associated with sexuality and sexuality education in ASD and offered recommendations as to the role individuals with autism, their families, and the professionals who support them need to play in this complex and important area of adult life. This video is the recording of the webinar, so people can access this content.
It goes without saying that individuals with ASD are sexual beings. Unfortunately, the biological, physiological and behavioral aspects of human sexuality in general remain significantly under-researched, so it is not surprising that there is even less research when it comes to sexuality and individuals on the autism spectrum.
This knowledge gap, when added to the social, cultural, religious and legal restrictions that often govern the display sexual behavior, results in an area of intervention about which we have limited evidence-based information as to
- 1) the content of instruction in sex education,
- 2) the process of instruction or intervention in sex education,
- 3) the timing of intervention in sex education or,
- 4) the development of effective interventions to prevent sexual abuse.
Recommended Reading
- Various Books by Kate Reynolds for teenagers
- Our Whole Lives: Sexuality Education Series (Unitarian Universalist Press)
- The Guide to Getting it On by Paul Joannides and Daerick Gröss Sr.
- Asperger’s Syndrome and Sexuality: From Adolescence through Adulthood by Isabelle Henault
- The Book of Happy, Positive, and Confident Sex for Adults on the Autism Spectrum…and Beyond! by Michael John Carley (Neurodiversity Press)
- Making Sense of Sex: A Forthright Guide to Puberty, Sex and Relationships for People with Asperger’s Syndrome by Sarah Atwood (Jessica Kingsley Publshers)
- The Autism Spectrum, Sexuality and the Law: What every parent and professional needs to know by Tony Atwood, Isabelle Henealt, and Nick Dublin (Jessica Kingsley Publishers)
Other Useful Materials
- Sexual Safety Issues for People with ASD in Dating Relationships, at the workplace and In the Community (PDF, Autism Partnership)
- Sexuality Education: What You Need to Know if You Have a Child/Student on the Autism Spectrum (Monarch Center)
- Autism, Sexual Health and Today’s Sexual Culture (Monarch Cener for Autism)
- What is Public vs. What is Private (Elevatus)
- Types of Relationships (Elevatus)
- Dating Resources for Individuals with Autism (#ASDNext)
- Romance 101: Dating for Adults with Autism (ASERT)
- How to Find Someone to Date (ASERT)
- GMSA Sexual Self Advocacy
- Love – Not Just for Some, But for Everyone (GMSA)
- Sexual Rights: Autonomy (Elevatus)
- Sexual Rights: Privacy (Elevatus)
- Sexual Self-Advocacy (GMSA, PDF)
- Relationships & Sexuality for People with Autism: Reaching A Greater Understanding (Dr. Stephen Shore)
- Healthy Relationships and Sexuality (Sharon Potter)
- Love and Autism
- Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships (Planned Parenthood of Delaware)
- Talking With Your Kids about Sexuality (Elevatus)
- Sexual Rights Statement (ICARG/Elevatus)
- Power and Control Wheel (Elevatus)
- Equality and Interdependence Wheel (Elevatus)
Links
- Go Ask Alice
- National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth
- Scarlateen
- Sexuality and Disability
- SIECUS
Prevention Resources
These resources are designed to provide information and tips on how to prevent sexual abuse and assault in individuals with autism. There are general resources that are appropriate for all ages and developmental levels, as well as specific resources for caregivers, professionals and individuals with autism.
Intervention Resources
These resources are designed to provide information and tips on how to provide support to individuals with autism who may have experienced sexual abuse or assault. There are general resources that are appropriate for all ages and developmental levels, as well as specific resources for caregivers, professionals and individuals with autism.
Social Stories and Visual Resources
These resources are a combination of social stories and visual resources that can be used to teach various concepts related to the prevention and intervention of abuse and sexual abuse for individuals with autism and developmental disabilities. These resources can be used alone, or in conjunction with the one page resources listed above.
General Community Safety
- Be Safe: Public and Private Places Social Story
- Be Safe: Home Safety Social Story
- Be Safe: Community Safety Social Story
- Be Safe: Right to Be Safe Social Story
- Be Safe: Using a Urinal Social Story
Relationship and Sex Education Materials
- Be Safe: Relationships Social Story, Parts 1-6
- Be Safe: Consensual Touch Social Story
- Be Safe: Explaining Sex and Sexual Behaviors Social Story
- Be Safe: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Social Story
- Be Safe: Rules for My Body Social Story
- Be Safe: Who Should Help Me in the Bathroom Social Story
- Be Safe: Who Should Help Me in the Bathroom Social Story
- Be Safe: What are Private Parts
- Be Safe: Understanding Private Parts Social Story
Teaching About Abuse
- Be Safe: What is Sexual Abuse (Children) Social Story
- Be Safe: What is Sexual Abuse (Adults) Social Story
- Be Safe: Abusive Behaviors Social Story
- Be Safe: What is Trauma Social Story
- Be Safe: What is Neglect Social Story
- Be Safe: Why Do People Abuse Others Social Story
Talking About Abuse
- Be Safe: Telling About Sexual Abuse Social Story for Adults, Part 1-3
- Be Safe: Telling About Sexual Abuse Social Story for Children, Parts 1-3
- Be Safe: Saying No Social Story
- Be Safe: When I’m Uncomfortable Social Story, Parts 1-2
- Be Safe: Secrets – When Should You Tell Social Story
Dealing With Sexual Abuse
- Be Safe: Coping with Abuse Social Story
- Be Safe: Flashbacks and Intrusive Thoughts Social Story
- Safe: Recognizing Negative Emotions Social Story
- Be Safe: Treatment for Sexual Abuse and Assault Social Story, Parts 1-4
Sexual Assault Awareness Toolkit (Elevatus)
- Sexual Right: Safety, Empowering Self-Advocates to Keep Themselves Safe
- What is Consent? (PDF)
- A Prelude to Consent
- Abuse Awareness and Prevention Guide (PDF)
- Video: Consent for Kids
- Amaze Education Portal
- People with Intellectual Disabilities and Sexual Violence(The Arc, PDF)
- NPR Series: Abused and Betrayed
- Ten Point Guide on Responding to Suspected Abuse of People with Developmental Disabilities
- Talk About Sexual Violence (The Arc)