It goes without saying that autistic individuals are sexual beings. Unfortunately, the biological, physiological, and behavioral aspects of human sexuality in general stay significantly under-researched. It is not surprising to find even less research on sexuality about individuals on the autism spectrum. This knowledge gap, when added to the social, cultural, religious and legal restrictions that often govern the showing of sexual behavior, results in an area of intervention about which we have limited evidence-based information as to
- the content of instruction in sex education,
- the process of instruction or intervention in sex education,
- the timing of intervention in sex education or,
- the development of effective interventions to prevent sexual abuse.
- Recommended Reading
- Useful Materials
- Safety
- Education
- Relationships
- Consent
- Dating / Romance / Online Safety
- Abuse and Violence
- Rights and Self-Advocacy
- For Families
- Links
- Prevention Resources
- Intervention Resources
- Social Stories and Visual Resources
- Sexual Assault Awareness Toolkit (Elevatus)
- A Self-Advocate’s Guide to Safer Sex (ASAN)
- What Do I Need to Know About Sexual Assault? (ASAN)
- Social Narratives (Autism Society of Minnesota)
- Public vs. Private
Recommended Reading
- Various Books by Kate Reynolds for teenagers
- Our Whole Lives: Sexuality Education Series (Unitarian Universalist Press)
- The Guide to Getting it On by Paul Joannides and Daerick Gröss Sr.
- Asperger’s Syndrome and Sexuality: From Adolescence through Adulthood by Isabelle Henault
- The Book of Happy, Positive, and Confident Sex for Adults on the Autism Spectrum…and Beyond! by Michael John Carley (Neurodiversity Press)
- Making Sense of Sex: A Forthright Guide to Puberty, Sex and Relationships for People with Asperger’s Syndrome by Sarah Atwood (Jessica Kingsley Publshers)
- The Autism Spectrum, Sexuality and the Law: What every parent and professional needs to know by Tony Atwood, Isabelle Henealt, and Nick Dublin (Jessica Kingsley Publishers)
Useful Materials
Safety
Sexual Safety Issues for People with ASD in Dating Relationships, at the workplace and In the Community (PDF, Autism Partnership)
Education
- Sexuality Education: What You Need to Know if You Have a Child/Student on the Autism Spectrum (Monarch Center)
- ASD Sex Ed
- Sex Ed for Individuals with I/DD (NCIL)
- Amaze.org
- Sex Talk for Self-Advocates Series (Elevatus)
- Your Sexual Health Toolkit
- Inside and Out: Understanding Your Body (Elevatus)
- Being Sexual with Another Person (Elevatus)
- Sexual Feelings and Choices (Elevatus)
- Sexual Feelings and Acts (Elevatus)
- Go Ask Alice
- Planned Parenthood
- Scarleteen
- Sexuality and Disability
- Positive Self-Esteem and Internalized Ableism for People with I/DD
- Sexual Feelings and Choices (Elevatus)
Relationships
- Types of Relationships (Elevatus)
- Relationships & Sexuality for People with Autism: Reaching A Greater Understanding (Dr. Stephen Shore)
- Healthy Relationships and Sexuality (Sharon Potter)
- Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships (Planned Parenthood of Delaware)
- Love, Dating, Relationships and Disability (EasterSeals)
- Relationship Guideposts (Autism Society of Minnesota)
- Dating and Relationships (Autism Society Maryland)
- Forming Relationships (Elevatus)
- Asking Someone to Be Your Friend (Elevatus)
- Moving from Friend to Partner or Sweetheart (Elevatus)
- Asking Someone to Be Your Friend (Elevatus)
- Healthy, Unhealthy and Abusive Relationships (Elevatus)
- Ending Relationships (Elevatus)
- Steps for Breaking Up (Elevatus)
- Ending an Abusive Relationship (Elevatus)
- Dealing With Pain and Anger (Elevatus)
- Sexual Harassment and Boundaries (PDF, New Jersey Self-Advocacy Project)
- Healthy Boundaries with others (Elevatus)
- Communication and Decision-Making Skills (Elevatus)
Consent
- Consent (PDF, Elevatus / New Jersey Self-Advocacy Project)
- Consent (Elevatus)
- Consent Stories Handout (PDF, Elevatus)
- Videos
- Consent and Sexual Relationships | New York State Office for People with Developmental Disabilities New York State
- GameChangers: Consent is Classic | Dane County Rape Crisis Center
- Sex Ed by and for People with I/DD: Consent | National Council on Independent Living (NCIL)
Dating / Romance / Online Safety
- Dating Resources for Individuals with Autism (#ASDNext)
- Romance 101: Dating for Adults with Autism (ASERT)
- How to Find Someone to Date (ASERT)
- Social Rules for Online Dating (Autism Society of Minnesota)
- How to Create an Online Dating Profile (Autism Society of Minnesota)
Abuse and Violence
- Power and Control Wheel (Elevatus)
Rights and Self-Advocacy
- Autism, Sexual Health and Today’s Sexual Culture (Monarch Cener for Autism)
- GMSA Sexual Self Advocacy
- Bodily Autonomy and Boundaries (Elevatus)
- Love – Not Just for Some, But for Everyone (GMSA)
- Sexual Rights Statement (ICARG/Elevatus)
- Sexual Rights: Autonomy (Elevatus)
- Sexual Rights: Privacy (Elevatus)
- Equality and Interdependence Wheel (Elevatus)
- Sexual Self-Advocacy (GMSA, PDF)
- Love and Autism
- The Autistic Sexual Bill of Rights (Autism Society of Minnesota)
- Loud, Proud & Desire: A Workshop on Disability & Sexuality (Disability Pride PA)
- Body Autonomy and Boundaries (Elevatus, PDF)
For Families
- Talking With Your Kids about Sexuality (Elevatus)
- 7 Things to Know About ASD and Sexuality Education (Autism Society of Minnesota)
- Family Planning and STI Prevention (Elevatus)
Links
- Go Ask Alice
- National Center on the Sexual Behavior of Youth
- Scarlateen
- Sexuality and Disability
- SIECUS
- Amy Gravino
Prevention Resources
These resources offer information on preventing sexual abuse. They provide tips on preventing assault in individuals with autism. There are general resources that are appropriate for all ages and developmental levels. There are also specific resources for caregivers, professionals, and individuals with autism.
Intervention Resources
These resources are designed to provide information and tips on how to provide support to individuals with autism who may have experienced sexual abuse or assault. There are general resources that are appropriate for all ages and developmental levels, as well as specific resources for caregivers, professionals and individuals with autism.
Social Stories and Visual Resources
These resources are a combination of social stories and visual resources that can be used to teach various concepts related to the prevention and intervention of abuse and sexual abuse for individuals with autism and developmental disabilities. These resources can be used alone, or in conjunction with the one page resources listed above.
General Community Safety
- Be Safe: Public and Private Places Social Story
- Be Safe: Home Safety Social Story
- Be Safe: Community Safety Social Story
- Be Safe: Right to Be Safe Social Story
- Be Safe: Using a Urinal Social Story
Relationship and Sex Education Materials
- Be Safe: Relationships Social Story, Parts 1-6
- Be Safe: Consensual Touch Social Story
- Be Safe: Explaining Sex and Sexual Behaviors Social Story
- Be Safe: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Social Story
- Be Safe: Rules for My Body Social Story
- Be Safe: Who Should Help Me in the Bathroom Social Story
- Be Safe: What are Private Parts
- Be Safe: Understanding Private Parts Social Story
Teaching About Abuse
- Be Safe: What is Sexual Abuse (Children) Social Story
- Be Safe: What is Sexual Abuse (Adults) Social Story
- Be Safe: Abusive Behaviors Social Story
- Be Safe: What is Trauma Social Story
- Be Safe: What is Neglect Social Story
- Be Safe: Why Do People Abuse Others Social Story
Talking About Abuse
- Be Safe: Telling About Sexual Abuse Social Story for Adults, Part 1-3
- Be Safe: Telling About Sexual Abuse Social Story for Children, Parts 1-3
- Be Safe: Saying No Social Story
- Be Safe: When I’m Uncomfortable Social Story, Parts 1-2
- Be Safe: Secrets – When Should You Tell Social Story
Dealing With Sexual Abuse
- Be Safe: Coping with Abuse Social Story
- Be Safe: Flashbacks and Intrusive Thoughts Social Story
- Safe: Recognizing Negative Emotions Social Story
- Be Safe: Treatment for Sexual Abuse and Assault Social Story, Parts 1-4
Sexual Assault Awareness Toolkit (Elevatus)
- Sexual Right: Safety, Empowering Self-Advocates to Keep Themselves Safe
- What is Consent? (PDF)
- A Prelude to Consent
- Abuse Awareness and Prevention Guide (PDF)
- Video: Consent for Kids
- Amaze Education Portal
- People with Intellectual Disabilities and Sexual Violence(The Arc, PDF)
- NPR Series: Abused and Betrayed
- Ten Point Guide on Responding to Suspected Abuse of People with Developmental Disabilities
- Talk About Sexual Violence (The Arc)
- Consent (Understand) (KEPRO/Acentra HCQU)
A Self-Advocate’s Guide to Safer Sex (ASAN)
- Easy Read (PDF)
- Plain Language (PDF)
What Do I Need to Know About Sexual Assault? (ASAN)
- Easy Read (PDF)
- Plain Language (PDF)
Social Narratives (Autism Society of Minnesota)
Public vs. Private
- What is Public vs. What is Private (Elevatus)
Rehearsal Guides (KEPRO/Acentra HCQU)
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