Over the years I have learned an important lesson. When I go somewhere to socialize, I realize that not everyone will be the same. The same applies when I share a space with others. People will not necessarily align with my expectations. We are all different and in fact can be where we are because of our challenges. It can be hard to accept others for who they are. Still, it is important to stay in my own lane. This helps me cope with the situation I have to deal with. I can then be at my best in the situation I am in.

As hard as it is to seem, it can be hard for me to deal with certain things about others. It can seem to be too sensitive for me or that it is just too much. But the reality is that we sometimes need to co-exist in an environment. We are both there to focus on what needs to be done. It can be hard to put our feelings aside. We must remember that just as we have our challenges, they also have theirs. And you know what, sometimes they can see us as the person that they strive to be. Sometimes, that motivates me. It helps me strive to be the best person I can be for our shared environment.

It has not always been easy for me to be accepting of others. I find it challenging to accept the way a person presents themselves based on their challenges. Nevertheless, I learned it takes a lot of willingness to bend to meet their needs. I understand that sometimes others bend for me and my challenges. They also look up to me as someone that they see as an inspirational person. I still remember to this day. Someone who looks up to me saw me having a really bad meltdown. They were just shocked at how I acted. I made a commitment to be mindful in how I carry myself. Since that point, I have worked on bettering myself. I aim to stay in my own lane, especially when interacting with others becomes challenging during tough times.

It has taken a lot for me to grow over the past few years. I experienced a big meltdown. Then, I had some of the biggest relapses I ever faced. Even after that, I took time to realize the importance of caring for my mental health. It helps me withstand what makes me irritable. Caring for myself consistently is necessary for my daily living. Knowing how much I am seen in the eyes of my peers keeps me going. It motivates me to be my best each and every day, no matter how hard it is. I sacrifice what is needed to make sure I am my best. This determination helps me navigate the challenging world. Staying in my own lane is a big factor in making that happen.