I have been outspoken about my challenges of being autistic and having co-occurring anxiety and mental health diagnoses. It is Disabilities Pride Month, so we should be proud. We carry our disabilities with a badge of honor. We should be proud of the freedoms we have when it comes to getting our needs met. This allows us to thrive in the community we live in. But, it can be hard to be proud of asking for the things that we need as well.

Without a doubt I am beginning to love myself more and more as time has progressed. I know that it is best to do that. Instead of playing the ‘woe is me’ card, I choose not to seek pity from others. It is not because I am different. Having a neurological condition like being autistic can make us question our sense of belonging. There are so many barriers against us. We often have to cross them while feeling doubtful. We wonder if we can thrive in a society that always wants to put us down. But we must do the part of showing that our disability can’t let us down.

I know that I can’t change things about myself. I also can’t change the things I need to have the desirable qualities I want in life. Sometimes it can be hard to accept them. It is especially true when they hinder my ability to just be. Society sets what is normal in the world, and there is such a demand to do so many things. The world has come a long way since I was growing up. It is now more accommodating of people with disabilities. Yet, there is still a long way to go. Facing the world is still challenging. Hindrances make the world harder for us. Yet at least I know that I must push on.

Disability pride is a newer concept. I am beginning to understand it and yet be proud of it. It was always something that was to be hidden or made invisible. This was important when it comes to navigating the world that we live in. Because I am capable of ambulating, I always downplayed my disabilities. I masked them and made them something I can withstand. Instead, they became more visible when I did not reveal them. I struggled with doing the things that were expected of me.

Nonetheless, I am now proud of all of me, disability and all that comes with it. I no longer hide it. If the right entities understand, they can help me the best they can. It’s better than them not knowing and being confused when I falter. It helps prevent a crash when things be more harmful. Granted, not every day is easy. Still, I must do more to be open and accepting of my disabilities and challenges. I must also be open and accepting of those I cross paths with too.

July is disability pride month. My disabilities are with me and there is nothing I can do to avoid the challenges that they bring. I understand the importance of managing my challenges. This way, they do not become an issue for myself and others. I am not ashamed of asking for supports, accommodations, and auxiliary aids. These help me cope with the circumstances of life that are brought along the way.